"Call a Time Out!" PRT (Parenthesis Reading Time) 1:08

Get over it; there is no such thing as free time, spare time, discovered time or the many other terms we give to the excuses we give for not taking the time.

I just had an interesting (IM) exchange with a colleague who is facing the outcomes of our changing economy. As a part of my response to her (viable) laments about lost income and the future’s uncertainty, I suggested that some of my recent blog messages might offer her some valid reflection and encouragement. After a pause, she replied, “Well, now with the cutback I will have more free time and will be able to read some more.” She then added, “I will be able to spend more time with my kids and doing more of the mother thing.”

Hmmm…. Anything suspicious about this perspective? Have you ever heard yourself say something similar to the following: “Boy, when I can, I hope to find time to…

- sp - spend quality time with my spouse or priority relationship

- sp - spend quality time with my kids

- s - spend quality time with my friends and extended family

- sp - spend quality time with my co-workers

- sp - spend quality time exercising

- sp - spend quality time developing a talent or passion

- sp - spend quality time reading more

- sp - spend quality time in solitude

- - s - spend quality time with God.”

Hmmm…. A few things you might want to spend (any) time considering:

1. 1. Every decision we make as to where we invest the time we are given comes with a price: question to ask yourself is “What does it cost me if I do XXX…and what does it cost me if I don’t do XXX?”

2 2. The idea that someone “gives you the time” is a myth. The time is there; you must “take the time.” It is easy to blame…life for your not taking the time for the things that in your heart you want and know need you the most.

3. 3. The concept of “spending quality time” on anything you might have on your list, takes…spending the time you have. Duh! And if all the time you have is “pocket change”…it’s still change.

Remember, there’s a reason that the expression goes, “There’s not time like the present.” Take the gift. Open it. See, now you have time on your hands.

Spend it.

For emphasis.

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